On weight loss

As I enter my 40s, I decided to lose some of the weight I gained in my 30’s. Over the last 65 days, I lost nearly 10kg over weeks.

In addition to the aesthetic benefits, there are a significant health benefits associated with weight loss, particularly with reducing the risk of certain cancers, heart disease, diabetes, etc. Changing your diet can also significantly reduce how much you spend on food, and even have a positive environmental effect: as you significantly reduce the amount of animal protein you consume every day. Specially if you eat beef, which is pretty terrible in contributing to climate change.

I did a fairly aggressive weight-loss regime based on a couple of books+videos on body composition, nutrition, exercise, and – the often overlooked, but most critical – sleep. Below I describe how I lost ~1kg (~2.2lbs) per week.

You don’t need to be as aggressive as I was – I’m currently living on 1450 calories (~6000kj) per day, as I kinda just want the process over and done with.

Disclaimer: I’m (barely) a software engineer. I’m not a nutritionists nor a personal trainer. Weight loss is literally a form of starvation and the body will do things to defend itself. If you do this, expect it to really suck. Below I describe what worked for me. But it might not work for you.

What to expect

The losing weight part is not particularly difficult. That hard part is how your body reacts to being put into what is effectively starvation. Expect your social life to also take a toll, as dieting is extremely anti-social behavior and limits what you can consume (i.e., alcohol is mostly out, as are fun party foods, chocolate, etc.).


What I personally wasn’t expecting was the negative reactions my weight loss. People seem to take your weight-loss as some kind of personal attack on them. For me, this translated to not wanting to be around people, as it felt like people were either trying to actively sabotage what I was doing, or I was letting people down by not enabling them to drink, eat, or whatever, in both moderation and excess. I enjoy drinks and dinner with my friends, so the diet has been difficult with respect to that. Now that I have a better understanding of the inputs/outputs of my own body, I hope that I can manage social situations better.

Ups and downs

Weight loss happens over time (i.e., it’s a trend), it’s not a day to day thing. Some days you weigh yourself and you’re 1kg heavier, then you weight yourself the next day and you’ve dropped 500 grams!

Sometimes, you can go up in weight an entire week and then suddenly drop – or your weight seems to stall. Other times, you think you’ve over eaten and undid all your fine work… only to find you’ve dropped a kilo for no reason!

The main thing is not to get worried when your weight goes up, as long as the overall trend is down. Basically, have faith in the system.

First month

The first month was really rough. For me, it meant:

  • Fatigue: in the first month, I felt super tired and ended up having to take 1-2 hour naps. It was also harder to get out of bed in the morning for a few weeks. This passed in time.
  • Exercising became very difficult: whereby my running times went from ~27 minutes to 31 minutes for a 5km run – I also stopped going to the gym for about 4 weeks. This passed, and I’m now running 5km in 26 minutes without any problems. I’m also back at the gym, usually going 2 times per week for around 2-3 hours.
  • Light headedness: My blood pressure kinda went all over the place and I became light headed at times. This also passed after about 6 weeks, but it was a bit scary. It even happened to me a the gym.
  • Although I’ve not exactly changed how I’d been easting over the last few years, the reduction in what I was eating did cause havoc with my digestive system (and still does even today).
  • A lot of dreams about food… about binging eating and feeling bad, about foods you miss and eating them in moderation, etc. and just weird dreams involving food.
  • Boring your significant other with stats, unsolicited health advice, and having to hear about all of the above. Sorry Barbara!

With an understanding of some of the fun side effects, we can dive into the actual weight loss.

Things you need

There are some things I’ve found indispensable in the weight loss process:

  • Calorie counter application – I recommend “Lose it!“. That’s right, we are going old school and counting calories to lose weight. The nice modern twist here is that apps like Lose It support scanning barcodes and even food – so it makes it easy… so long as you know how much you are putting in. Also, don’t be a cheap-ass! buy the subscription to the app. You will be saving so much money on food that you won’t even feel the cost of the app – and you can always unsubscribe to the app once you are done.
  • kitchen scale. Measure everything you eat, and put it into the app.
  • Body composition scale. I recommend the Renpho scale. It’s wieldy inaccurate, but it’s good enough.
  • Vegetable steamer: we are going to eat (literally) a ton of vegetables, and boiling vegetables is disgusting and just wrong!

Caloric deficit

The easiest ways to force the body to consume stored fat is to enter what is known as a caloric deficit: if input less calories than the body needs to burn everyday to function, it will instead use stored fat to stay alive and function correctly.

The precise value to put the body into a caloric deficit depends on a bunch of variables, but you can find calculators online to give you an idea of how many calories, on average, someone of a certain age, sex, weight, height, etc. burns per day: Google for “calorie deficit calculator”.

Once you know that number, you can basically subtract the number of calories from you diet that would result in weight loss. The Lose It app I mentioned above just has a scale: “how much do you want to lose per week?”. Once you set it, it automatically just suggests how many calories per day you are allowed. Then you just follow that. It’s pretty straight forward, and the app just adjusts to your weight loss over time.

When I started, my weight was 91kg, and I wanted to lose 1kg per week, so my budget was 1576cal/6594kj per day. As you become leaner, however, your body becomes more efficient, so you need less fuel per day.

At the time of writing, my weight is 80.6kg my budget is 1432cal/day to maintain a weight loss of ~1kg/week.

Body composition

Body composition is basically your fat/muscle ratios. By messing around with nutrition (i.e., food) it’s possible to manipulate your body composition significantly. Similarly, doing particular exercises with the right nutrition allows you either lose weight and/or gain muscle:

What we are doing is is basically a form of body hacking.


Nutrition basically comes down to 4 things:

  • Fats – oils and animal fats.
  • Carbohydrates – fiber and sugar.
  • Protein – mostly from other animals, but some from plant.
  • hydration – water, drink it… lots of it (over 1 liter… go for 2 liters).

Each basically playing a significant role in maintaining and manipulating body composition.


All fats are delicious, and in themselves don’t actually make you fat. It’s sugar that makes people fat, as it’s sugar that the body converts into fat.

However, fats super calorie/energy dense and will easily blow your daily calorie budget. Basically, we want limit fat input as much as possible not because they will make us fat, but because they will inhibit our ability to be in caloric deficit.

For example, I limit myself to 5 milliliters of olive oil in a salad (40cal) or 5 grams of butter (36cal) when cooking anything.

Eat protein, lots of it

The one we care most about in the above is protein. Protein synthesis allows us the body to build muscle, and it’s also critical for not losing muscle while we lose fat. You don’t want to end up all skinny, but also all lose all your muscle in the process. That defeats the purpose.

As a general rule, we want to eat as much protein as possible. A good goal is 1.7 x your body weight in kg… or easier, your body weight in pounds / 100. So, for me, ~170g of protein per day.

Eating that much protein can be hard, so I recommend buying whey protein powder. I’ve been using Pure Product Australia Whey Protein for about 1 year. It’s about AU$27 per kilo and usually lasts me about 6 weeks. It’s great for making protein shakes (337 calories):

  • One spoon of protein powder is 24g of protein,
  • One banana (optionally frozen).
  • Ice + water.
  • Optionally, soy milk.

Other great source of protein is eggs. I either eat 3 eggs for breakfast.

Lean meats are also a great source of protein. Basically, any fish is great because they are low in fat. Chicken breast is also really good as are chicken thigh fillets without the skin. You can generally get away with eating about 200 grams of those per day.

Beef is more complicated, because of the amount on fat (unless it’s lean). If you are eating a sirloin steak, you can generally get away with eating about 100 grams. That might not sound like a lot, but it goes a long way.

Stop eating sugar and processed things

White/added sugar is just terrible. Avoid it at all costs.

Likewise, machine processed things generally contain massive amounts of calories. This includes, bread, pasta, cheese, processed cereals (e.g., corn flakes), etc. and can basically blow your calorie budget. If it’s not fresh, or comes in a box, just avoid it.

Instead, replace all of the above with fruits and vegetables.

Fruits and vegetables

Obviously, fruits and vegetables are amazing, but some are more amazing than others. Anything sweet is going have move calories than anything not as sweet… all the way down to the tasteless, like cucumbers.

Some examples:

  • 100g Frozen cherries is 60cal.
  • 1 peach is ~45cal.
  • 1 mango is ~192cal.

As most vegetables are mostly water, they have little actual nutritional value in terms of calories. So you can basically eat large amounts amounts of them without any care. For example:

  • 100g of Cauliflower is 29cal.
  • 60g of mixed salad is 12cal.
  • 200g of capsicum is 50cal.


Although delicious, they are unfortunately super calorie dense. I personally still can’t resist them, but try limit myself to around 20g of almonds or pecans per day (~120cal).


If you’ve been going to the gym for ages, and not seeing any results, it’s likely your nutrition is off/wrong – but genetics also play a significant role.

The body is a highly efficient machine, basically meaning that exercise is mostly useless for weight loss, unless you really know what you are doing. To burn off the equivalent of a small meal, you need to either walk for 1.5 hours, or run 5km/3 miles in less than 30 minutes.

Nevertheless, I still recommend incorporating running, walking every, or going to the gym every second day (always with a day of rest!) – if only because it’s fun, and it gives you a few additional calories that you can add to a meal. I.e., don’t look at exercise as a means to lose weight, more as a means of getting more calories.


Sleep is so critical to weightless that it needs to be mentioned up front. It’s much more critical than exercise. As anyone that’s weighed themselves at night, and then weighed themselves again in the morning knows, weight loss happens while you sleep.

Thus, good quality sleep is absolutely critical to weight loss. Basically, the more you sleep, and the better you sleep, the quicker you lose weight.

Aim for at least 7 hours. If you are like me, I tend to wake up after 4 hours. I then do my sleeping in 2 blocks, with 1 hour in between. For example, I go to bed at 2am, wake at 6am because my cat likes to eat then. I then generally try to go back to sleep at before 7am until 10am.

On the weekend, I try to cram in 9-12 hours if I can. So, again, 2am, get up at 6am for a bit, then go back to sleep until, if I can, 1pm.

Typical day

Finally, this is typical day for me:

  1. Sleep 7-8 hours – usually in 2 x 4 hour sessions.
  2. Have either 3 eggs for breakfast or protein shake.
  3. A coffee, made with 80g of soy milk.
  4. Lunch: 100g of salad leaves, a can of tuna, ~150g of mixed vegetables.
  5. Another coffee, with another 80g of soy or cow’s milk.
  6. If I’m going to gym: another protein shake (whey protein + a banana).
  7. Go for a 5km run (30mins) or 1.5 hour walk.
  8. Dinner: either 200g of fish or skinless chicken, or 100g of beef or lamb. 60g of salad, 100g of broccolini or other steamed vegetables, such a green beans.
  9. Desert: 1/2 a mango.
  10. If I’m still hungry, a tea made with ~80 ml of milk.
  11. Snacks: 10-20g of nuts, fruits: peach, apple, or pear, etc.

That’s usually just around 1400Cal.